Tuesday, August 26, 2008

“Is this the women I married?”

Being married to another person needs lots of adjustment. Not because she or he a worse person or a better person – just a different person.Being a parents need lots of adjusment even more. Adjusting to the ever-changing pressure and responsibilities of parenthood.

If you were a “career woman” who decided to stay at home to raise your children, you’re probably not doing the same things you had been doing for years. Instead of talking about the boss, the latest sofware, wearing high heels and make-up, and confidence, you are chatting about how fuzzy your little one last night, where to find kids clothes on discount, wearing pajamas all day and uncertainty.

You may have a new set of friends (another women you have met in the day care, or play ground). You also may have sets of problems, that your husband may not have any ideas how to help you out. He may feels confuse. He may thinks that he doesn’t even know you. The professional woman who I married to, now transform into a traditional domestic woman, wife and mom.

You might be overwhelm, confused about this radical change in your lifestyle. So don’t you think isn’t it logical that your husband might be a little disorinted as well?

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